Monday, May 16, 2011

Antara Kawan dan Sahabat

Assalamualaikum

At the time of writing (typing ) this entry, I'm expecting a rainy night, since the storm is coming (heard the sound of it)

Anyway, actually I've been toying with the idea of creating this entry weeks ago, only now that I've got the so-called 'kerajinan' to do so, soooo....here it is!! :)

As i'm approaching the age of twenty, much had happened to me, and everything around me. As time passes (ceh ckp mcm dh tua sgt. lol ), friends come and go. And now I (think) that I can safely distinguish between sahabat and kawan (or the other way round---->if you're left handed [leftist]. lol XD)

So, let me talk about this "sahabat"---they are the ones who'll be there for whatever you do or whoever you decided to become, be it good or bad....and they're the ones who'll be there (also) to bring you back to the righteous path if you've ever slipped on this journey we call "life"....and they'll fought long and hard (if needed) to bring you back to it, b'cos they love you and appreciate you for who you are, not for the mask that you wear, but for the essence of you yourself, what you have inside (ok, dirty minded ppl please go away~). Consider these people called "sahabat" as rare species and should be handled with care---always.

Now we go to the people around us whom we call "kawan". They are the most abundant ones, come and go, walk into and out of our lives.....and, sad to say, most of them are considered unreliable at the time you need them the most..or to put it in such a way, the least you want from them is sometimes small favour, which they could not fulfill sometime---an asshole for that, sorry to say-truth are the ones that tastes bitter. (if you sugar-coat it, it would be a lie, then)

I've met these people. There are the ones who would leave you for girls-bitter truth, swallow it then :)
some say good things in front of you, but then again, stabs you in the back in front of others. Some, if you ask them for small favour, (not that I'd do it all the time, only one time with one of 'them') would not even respond to your SMS- to say the least! There are others who only know ways to condemn you, your choice and instructs or advice you against what you've decided (which is a wise decision, one would put it). and the list goes on.....

But then, there are the good ones, who would always support and be there for you. These people, I would think would not need good explanations as to why they would go to such lengths in a friendship to do what other's wouldn't and they don't need any explanations, because...everything they do comes from a sincere heart.

Well, that's my two cents for now....till then (^-^)

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